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Technically, this may be true. However, it's still spam, and it still allows a spammer to use my domain for bounced messages. Now I look like the 'baddie'.....
Noone with any experience with spam will think you the 'baddie' because everyone has had bounces with their email address in the From:
Many people think that these are as bad as spam and those ISP's who send email bounces are guilty of aiding and abetting the spammer. However, they cannot be reported through spamcop.
It used to be that you could parse the headers and find out where to send manual abuse reports if you wanted to. However, I don't know whether that will be a feature or not since the advent of mailhosts. If you can find the IP address of the sender of the bounce, you can notify them what you think of the practice. You can also find the IP address of the original spam and complain to that ISP that your email address is being forged by the spammer. But not thru spamcop.
It seems hard that you cannot use spamcop for bounces and virus/worms, but spamcop has a defined mission and the remedies for correcting these abuses are different than the remedies for stopping spam.
If you can't block these bounces at the server level yourself (so they go back to where they came from or are dropped), then you might be able to ask your ISP to do it for you if they are a major problem. Otherwise, you can set up a filter for them and JHD. Usually though, they slack off after a few days.
Miss Betsy