Not 'reporting myself' as such but, similarly, another 'bad reporting' indiscretion - and bad reports DO happen. Just confessing I reported my wife's membership confirmation to a UK genealogy forum by mistake
1. Ellen (deputy) was nice about it when I followed the process
How can I unsend a report?1No excuses, just to point it can happen in all sorts of ways; note and be vigilant. This one:
It was tagged by NIS and (independently) sent to spam folder by email client.
It wasn't expected (by me), the sender wasn't known (by me).
My wife "never" uses email. That (apparently) is what I'm for.
'Someone else' read and used it there, left it there, in the spam folder, without comment.
It had 'roots' in the subject. In these parts, "eats roots and leaves" describes the dietary habits of a wombat whereas "eats, roots and leaves" is possibly impolite but surely pornographic in the detail.
Contrary indications I managed to ignore:
It had my wife's name in it (spammers have christened me many things but seldom my own name and never hers).
The sender's email address and the url which was found in the body had the same domain name which would usually make it 'main sleaze' which is fairly rare these days. And IP addresses matched (nothing obviously forged).
The sending IP address was all clear in the BLs and lists which the parser checks.
[on edit - oh yeah, then there was that payment confirmation for an associated service but that was third party, didn't mention the domain name of that forum and came in well after the membership email - OK, that's sounding like an excuse, but, really, it is no justification]Taken together, those should have been more than enough for a "full report" reporter to hesitate, stop, look more closely.
Hard for there to never be a slip up. Blessed are they that never slip, alas I am not in that number - mea culpa, mea culpa, mea culpa maxima.